7 Days of Valentines
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a one-day sugar rush of chocolates and candy hearts. Why not stretch the love out over an entire week? Whether you’re planning surprises for your kids, your partner, your friends, or even yourself (yes, self-love counts!), this guide will make Valentine’s Week a celebration for all ages.
I’ve gathered ideas from my own family life, think heart-shaped pancakes and last-minute construction paper crafts, and I have sprinkled in some tips to keep it simple and stress-free. Let’s spread the love, one day at a time!
What is the 7 Days of Valentines?
The 7 Days of Valentines is like turning the love dial up to 11, stretching the love, fun, and connection of Valentine’s Day over an entire week. Instead of cramming all your love and appreciation into one pressure-filled day, you get a full seven days to share little moments of happiness with the people who mean the most to you. It’s less about grand gestures and more about creating sweet, meaningful memories over time.
Why do people celebrate this way? Because let’s be honest, life is busy, chaotic, and sometimes downright exhausting (hello, laundry pile of doom). Dedicating a week to love gives you room to breathe and be intentional without feeling rushed. It’s perfect for families with kids who want to spread the fun, couples who need more than one evening to connect, and anyone who just loves an excuse to sprinkle a little extra kindness around.
Plus, celebrating for seven days allows you to focus on more than just romantic love. It’s a chance to show appreciation for your kids, your friends, your neighbors, and even yourself. Love isn’t a one-size-fits-all thing, so why should Valentine’s Day be? A whole week gives you space to celebrate all the love in your life in all its wonderfully unique forms.
Think of it as a way to slow down and savor the sweetness of life, kind of like a box of chocolates, but without the mystery flavors you’re not sure about!
Creative Ways to Share Love All Valentine’s Week Long
Day 1: Love Notes Monday
Kick off Valentine’s Week with handwritten notes. Yes, old-school paper and pen, no emojis allowed!
For Kids: Slip a note into their lunchbox or backpack. Write something sweet or silly, like “You’re the sunshine on my cloudy days” or “Your giggle is the best sound in the world.” Bonus points if you doodle a smiley face or a heart!
For Your Partner: Leave a sticky note on the bathroom mirror, their car dashboard, or tucked into their work bag. Something simple like, “I still get butterflies when I see you,” will melt their heart.
For Friends: Send a surprise card in the mail. Who doesn’t love getting something other than bills?
Pro Tip: Not crafty? Print free Valentine templates online, Pinterest has a treasure trove.
Day 2: Treat Yourself Tuesday
This is the day for self-love! Treat yourself to something that makes your heart happy.
For Kids: Let them pick their favorite dinner or dessert. Ice cream sundaes on a Tuesday? Why not!
For You: Take a bubble bath, buy that book you’ve been eyeing, or binge-watch your guilty-pleasure show guilt-free.
For Your Partner: Schedule a babysitter (or trade babysitting with another parent) and have a date night, even if it’s just a coffee date.
Pro Tip: If you’re treating yourself with dessert, grab some heart-shaped cookie cutters to make it festive. Even toast looks fancy with a heart cut-out!
Day 3: Share the Love Wednesday
This day is all about giving to others.
For Kids: Help them make cards or small crafts to hand out to neighbors or classmates. A bag of cookies tied with a bow can brighten anyone’s day.
For Your Partner: Surprise them by taking over a chore they dislike. Fold that mountain of laundry or handle bedtime with the kids so they can relax.
For Friends: Drop off a surprise coffee or send a quick text to let them know you’re thinking of them.
Pro Tip: Keep some blank cards on hand for spur-of-the-moment love bombs.
Day 4: Family Fun Thursday
Make this a family-centered evening filled with laughs and connection.
For Everyone: Play Valentine-themed games like bingo or charades. Or try a movie night with snacks like popcorn drizzled in pink chocolate.
For Teens: Let them invite friends for a Galentine’s or Palentine’s gathering. Provide pizza and let them take over the living room for the night.
Pro Tip: Keep it simple. The goal is togetherness, not a Pinterest-worthy setup.
Day 5: Flashback Friday
Revisit sweet memories and make a few new ones.
For Kids: Go through old photo albums or videos and relive funny or sweet moments. Let them pick a favorite photo to hang up for the week.
For Your Partner: Reminisce about your first date or favorite vacation. Bonus points if you recreate something from those moments—like ordering the same meal or playing “your song.”
For Yourself: Journal about things you love about your life. Gratitude is the ultimate love booster.
Pro Tip: Create a new memory by snapping a family photo with everyone wearing red or pink.
Day 6: Sweetheart Saturday
This is the day to go all out for your partner or spouse.
For Couples: Plan a romantic dinner at home after the kids are in bed. Light candles, play soft music, and enjoy a meal that doesn’t involve chicken nuggets.
For Single Parents: Celebrate your love for your kids with a special dinner. Let them be in charge of the menu, it’s chaos, but it’s fun!
Pro Tip: Don’t overthink it. Even a store-bought pizza feels fancy when you cut it into heart shapes.
Day 7: Sunday of Surprises
Wrap up the week with a grand finale of surprises.
For Kids: Have a Valentine’s Day scavenger hunt with small treats or notes hidden around the house.
For Your Partner: Give them a thoughtful gift, something personal, like a framed photo, a playlist of “your” songs, or a coupon book for things they’ll actually use (e.g., “1 Free Back Rub”).
For Yourself: Buy yourself flowers or that thing you’ve been eyeing for weeks. You deserve it!
Pro Tip: Remember, surprises don’t have to cost much, sometimes the smallest gestures are the most meaningful.
Final Tips for a Fun Valentine’s Week
- Plan Ahead: A little prep work can save you a ton of stress. Stock up on supplies like paper, markers, or small gifts.
- Get Everyone Involved: Make it a family tradition! Everyone can take turns coming up with ideas.
- Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff: The point is to share love, not create the perfect Instagram moment. A little effort goes a long way.
Valentine’s Week is all about showing appreciation for the people who make your heart full, whether that’s your kids, your partner, your friends, or yourself. So grab your calendar, pencil in these ideas, and enjoy the love-filled ride!
